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5 Reasons it’s great to do things Solo

Ever heard that saying, that once there’s a WhatsApp group for something it’s probably not going to happen? Come on stop playing coy you know what I mean. Think that family get together, that reunion, that girl’s trip, I could go on. This is one of the many reasons I sometimes enjoying doing things solo.… Read More 5 Reasons it’s great to do things Solo

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Am I next? Our biggest fears becoming a reality

  Defeated, depleted, exhausted and all around triggered. These are some of the emotions that I feel. Woman abuse/ Femicide has once again come to the forefront, cause let’s be honest it hadn’t stopped. I know I am not the only one experiencing a turbulence of emotions, you need only go on your timeline. Yet… Read More Am I next? Our biggest fears becoming a reality

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Getting Comfortable with Uncomfortable Conversations

If you want to reach the heights you want to reach then you have to get comfortable having uncomfortable conversations. This was a thought that struck me when I was having my self-reflective moments.A  journal is never far during these moments.  I believe that one of our core personality traits should be that of self-awareness.… Read More Getting Comfortable with Uncomfortable Conversations

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How to know if you are in a toxic family

Today is international family day, I have to admit that when it comes to this department I am pretty blessed. Does my family irritate me? Yes, I probably irritate them too. Are they a source of frustration (read older siblings, read deputy parents)? Again a big yes but they could say the same about me.… Read More How to know if you are in a toxic family

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The Joys Of Catch Up Dates

Let’s be honest as adults our friendship dynamics have changed it’s a lot of we should catch up sometime. Who knows sometime doesn’t exist? The next thing you know its fifty years later and your child’s best friends’ mom is that friend you still owe a cup of coffee? It’s real easy to blame it… Read More The Joys Of Catch Up Dates

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The circle of life: Lessons of having to start over

I am turning the big 3-0 later on this year and I am spending a lot of time reflecting and today’s post comes from one of my many reflection sessions. Getting my internship was the greatest step in my climb up the corporate ladder. I exaggerate a lot (it’s my special skill set) but it… Read More The circle of life: Lessons of having to start over

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Life lately, a quick update and what to expect.

Hello my awesome readers, I have to start out by saying I really appreciate the support. When I write I hope to entertain, inspire, encourage at least one person to speak their truth. However, when I post I am not sure if I am being seen but that’s where my analytics come in and we… Read More Life lately, a quick update and what to expect.

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Sipping Tea : In 2019 May We Have The Confidence Of Average Men

This post was inspired by true life events…cue epic music that lets you know that things are about to go down and that your life will never be the same again. A dear friend of mine and I were having a chilled conversation, when she related the story of her male friend who had seen… Read More Sipping Tea : In 2019 May We Have The Confidence Of Average Men

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My most read posts for 2018

Hi there my awesome readers, you might have noticed that I am not posting as regularly,quite honestly my nine to five has me doing back strokes as we try to finish off the year. I thought to mark  the blogs seven month monthversary ( YAAY US) we would take a short walk down memory lane… Read More My most read posts for 2018

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My Essential Summer Must Have List

Cue your favorite summer song pour your most potent cocktail and welcome the long days and short nights cause summer is here baby!! although some days winter still comes around to fetch her stuff she left during the break up SMH. Today I thought I would channel my most girly girl side and give you… Read More My Essential Summer Must Have List