Let’s be honest as adults our friendship dynamics have changed it’s a lot of we should catch up sometime. Who knows sometime doesn’t exist? The next thing you know its fifty years later and your child’s best friends mom is that friend you still owe a cup of coffee? It’s real easy to blame it… Read More The Joys Of Catch Up Dates
I am turning the big 3-0 later on this year and I am spending a lot of time reflecting and today’s post comes from one of my many reflection sessions. Getting my internship was the greatest step in my climb up the corporate ladder. I exaggerate a lot (it’s my special skill set) but it… Read More The circle of life: Lessons of having to start over
Hello my awesome readers, I have to start out by saying I really appreciate the support. When I write I hope to entertain, inspire, encourage at least one person to speak their truth. However, when I post I am not sure if I am being seen but that’s where my analytics come in and we… Read More Life lately, a quick update and what to expect.
This post was inspired by true life events…cue epic music that lets you know that things are about to go down and that your life will never be the same again. A dear friend of mine and I were having a chilled conversation, when she related the story of her male friend who had seen… Read More Sipping Tea : In 2019 May We Have The Confidence Of Average Men
Hi there my awesome readers, you might have noticed that I am not posting as regularly,quite honestly my nine to five has me doing back strokes as we try to finish off the year. I thought to mark the blogs seven month monthversary ( YAAY US) we would take a short walk down memory lane… Read More My most read posts for 2018
Cue your favorite summer song pour your most potent cocktail and welcome the long days and short nights cause summer is here baby!! although some days winter still comes around to fetch her stuff she left during the break up SMH. Today I thought I would channel my most girly girl side and give you… Read More My Essential Summer Must Have List
“Good Times and crazy friends make the best memories” (Read in whispered voice) I have reached that stage of my late twenties where I prefer a girl’s night in over a club night out. I will be the first to admit I have done (more than) my fair share of club hopping and dancing on… Read More Girls Night In Ideas
Molweni, happy Heritage day. As with all things in this beautiful country of ours this day does not come without any controversy and who am I to shy away from such after all I am the kween of Spice ( self-proclaimed) A brief History lesson…. For those who don’t know (ama 2000 I am… Read More How are you celebrating Heritage/ Shaka / Braai Day?
August was a pretty hectic month for me not just work wise but also personally. I have a cousin who had preeclampsia by the grace of God baby was fine but the mom had to stay in hospital for three weeks. They are both finally home but I have to admit hospital visits are exhausting.… Read More Experiences that have deeply changed and shaped me into the womyn I am becoming
Today is womxns day the peak of womxns month, a month that is meant to celebrate the resilience of womxn, their absolute strength so powerful we are called mbokodo. Yet in the very next moment we are raped and murdered like we are nothing. With the many triggers happening all around us, I thought let… Read More Sipping tea….A love letter to my Mbokodo