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Girls Night In Ideas

“Good Times and crazy friends make the best memories” (Read in whispered voice) I have reached that stage of my late twenties where I prefer a girl’s night in over a club night out. I will be the first to admit I have done (more than) my fair share of club hopping and dancing on… Read More Girls Night In Ideas

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How are you celebrating Heritage/ Shaka / Braai Day?

Molweni, happy Heritage day. As with all things in this beautiful country of ours this day does not come without any controversy and who am I to shy away from such after all I am the kween of Spice ( self-proclaimed)   A brief History lesson…. For those who don’t know (ama 2000 I am… Read More How are you celebrating Heritage/ Shaka / Braai Day?

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Experiences that have deeply changed and shaped me into the womyn I am becoming

August was a pretty hectic month for me not just work wise but also personally. I have a cousin who had preeclampsia by the grace of God baby was fine but the mom had to stay in hospital for three weeks. They are both finally home but I have to admit hospital visits are exhausting.… Read More Experiences that have deeply changed and shaped me into the womyn I am becoming

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Sipping tea….A love letter to my Mbokodo

Today is womxns day the peak of womxns month, a month that is meant to celebrate the resilience of womxn, their absolute strength so powerful we are called mbokodo. Yet in the very next moment we are raped and murdered like we are nothing. With the many triggers happening all around us, I thought let… Read More Sipping tea….A love letter to my Mbokodo

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I came, I saw, I ate…my first EC blogger meet up

Hey there amazing humans! You may know that my blog is two months old but what you may not know is that I had a blog years back on BlogSpot. I posted a few times throughout the year and got side tracked (let’s be honest I lost confidence in myself).So when I decided to restart… Read More I came, I saw, I ate…my first EC blogger meet up

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Sipping Tea…. Womyn hating on other Womyn

Hello my amazing readers, firstly thank you for receiving my authentic writing so well and allowing me to speak my truth; I am enjoying the conversations that are flowing from my tea sipping post. Today I hope you have your tea and popcorn in hand, I come bearing spice and lots of it. Today I… Read More Sipping Tea…. Womyn hating on other Womyn

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Ubizo “The Calling”- I need to Write

Do you have a God given calling or purpose that you haven’t answered and it just won’t let you go? Why is it that you won’t answer the calling? I am Xhosa and I know of many people that when they are going to be isangomas they must answer the calling. Well one of my… Read More Ubizo “The Calling”- I need to Write

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Sipping Tea… .Womxn need a safe space

So a friend of mine and I were having a venting session over some fermented grapes and lamb curry (When I tell you a story I mention everything!). I think it was the good food that made the vent happen so easily guys we went hard (on the venting not the grapes! it was cathartic)… Read More Sipping Tea… .Womxn need a safe space

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The Best advice I have received

Hey there and welcome, I truly hope the more you read the blog the more it feels like we are friends having a conversation over some fermented grapes or tea.  Some of my favorite sayings are “each one teach one” and “when you know better you do better”. So to fulfill these sayings today I… Read More The Best advice I have received

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Self-care time ladies

We live in a world where hashtags such as #whilstyouweresleeping are trending. I get it you were being creative and who am I do discourage that? However I am curious though does this mean you do not sleep? Does this mean you do not rest? We live very busy lives, it used to be called… Read More Self-care time ladies